Ethel Skakel Kennedy (born April 11, 1928) is the widow of Senator and former Attorney General
Robert F. Kennedy.
Early life
Ethel was born in
Chicago,
Illinois to Ann Brannack, a
Roman Catholic, and
George Skakel, a
Protestant, and was raised Catholic in
Greenwich, Connecticut. Her father was the founder of the very successful Great Lakes Carbon Corporation, now a division of
SGLCarbon. She attended the all-girls
Greenwich Academy in Greenwich, as well as the
Convent of the Sacred Heart in
Manhattan. In September 1945, Ethel began her collegiate education at
Manhattanville College of the Sacred Heart (then located in
Manhattan), where she met
Jean Kennedy, sister of her soon-to-be husband, Robert F. Kennedy, and the two became friends and roommates.
Marriage to Robert F. Kennedy
Ethel met
Robert F. Kennedy (Bobby) during a skiing trip to
Mont Tremblant Resort in
Quebec, Canada during the winter of 1945. At the time, Robert was dating Ethel's sister, Patricia. Eventually that relationship ended and Ethel and Bobby started seeing each other. Ethel campaigned for Bobby's brother,
John F. Kennedy, in his 1946 campaign for
United States Congress, and wrote her college thesis on his book
Why England Slept.
Bobby and Ethel became engaged in February 1950, and were married on June 17, 1950 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Greenwich. Ethel's wedding dress and bridal party gowns were created by noted
New York City fashion designer
Mamie Conti. As newlyweds, Ethel and Bobby moved to
Charlottesville, Virginia, where they lived while Bobby finished his last year at the
University of Virginia Law School. Their first child,
Kathleen, was born on July 4, 1951. After Bobby graduated with his law degree, the family settled in the
Washington, D.C. area and Bobby went to work for the
Department of Justice. However, that path did not last long as Bobby was asked by his family to manage
John F. Kennedy's 1952 successful Senate campaign in
Massachusetts.
Throughout the 1950s, Robert Kennedy worked for the federal government in investigatory roles for the
Permanent Subcommittee on Investigations of the
U.S. Senate Committee on Government Operations with the notoriously anti-Communist Senator
Joe McCarthy, and as chief counsel for the
Senate Select Committee on Improper Activities in Labor and Management). In 1956, the Kennedys purchased
Hickory Hill from Bobby's brother John and his wife,
Jackie. They needed a larger house, since Ethel was pregnant with their fifth child. This enormous 13 bedroom, 13 bath home was situated on in
McLean, Virginia.
In contrast to John and Jackie Kennedy, Robert and Ethel held many get-togethers at their home. Whether it was a pool party or a formal dinner party, the guest list was impressive and eclectic. Journalist
Roger Mudd remembers meeting
John Lennon at one such party. Other notable invitees included the
Secretary of the Interior Stewart Udall, entertainer
Judy Garland, dancer
Rudolf Nureyev and historian
Arthur Schlesinger, who found himself thrown into the pool fully clothed where Ethel was also already swimming fully clothed.
The 11 Kennedy children added to the wild atmosphere at Hickory Hill. Notoriously, Robert Jr. had a zoo in the basement. It was not unusual to see reptiles, a seal, an anteater, miniature ponies and even an elephant on the grounds.
[Evan Thomas, Robert Kennedy: A Life ] Jackie found the children so wild that she did not allow
Caroline and
John Jr. to play with their cousins.
Due to her strict Catholicism, Ethel reportedly objected when her children's private school began to teach the
Theory of Evolution.
RFK assassination
Just after midnight on June 5, 1968, her husband was shot by
Sirhan Sirhan. He died 26 hours later. Ethel and her children were devastated. President
Lyndon Johnson declared a day of mourning. In 1969, Sirhan was convicted of Robert Kennedy's murder and sentenced to death. In 1972, the sentence was commuted to life imprisonment after the California Supreme Court invalidated that state's death penalty as it existed at that time.
Life following the assassination
right|thumb|Ethel Kennedy in 2008Frequently throughout the 1970s, Ethel was escorted to dinners, parties and the theater by singer
Andy Williams, a family friend. However, she never engaged in any romantic relationships with another man following her husband's death. Citing her Catholicism, she had said she would never marry again.
During the
2008 Democratic Party presidential primaries she endorsed Illinois Senator
Barack Obama (as did her children
Max and
Rory, though another three,
Kathleen Kennedy Townsend,
Robert F. Kennedy, Jr. and
Kerry Kennedy, at first publicly endorsed Senator
Hillary Clinton, in mid-2007).
Ethel has also publicly supported and held fundraisers for numerous other politicians, including recently Virginia gubernatorial candidate
Brian Moran at Hickory Hill. She was among the chief mourners at the public funeral for her brother-in-law
Ted Kennedy on August 29, 2009, placing the pall on his casket at the Mass along with
Vickie Reggie and
Jean Kennedy Smith.
As of 2009, Ethel continues to live at the
Kennedy Compound in
Hyannisport.
Children of Robert and Ethel Kennedy